Encouraging Independence Through Summer Activities: 7 Tips for Parents & Teens
- Brian Sly
- Jul 16, 2025
- 2 min read
Summer is the perfect season for tweens and teens to start spreading their wings—but that doesn’t mean parents have to feel left out. Encouraging independence in positive ways builds confidence for your teen and peace of mind for you. Here are 7 tips to help:
Involve Them in the Planning Let your teen help decide what their summer looks like—whether that’s camps,
activities, or learning something new. Giving them choices builds ownership and motivation.
Start Small with Responsibilities Encourage independence by giving them age-appropriate responsibilities—like packing for camp, managing their own schedule, or budgeting for outings with friends.
Encourage Volunteer Work or Part-Time Jobs Helping out at community events, local nonprofits, or even babysitting for neighbors fosters responsibility and introduces them to new people and skills.
Support New Interests, Even If They’re Unexpected Maybe your child suddenly wants to try pottery or learn coding—lean into their curiosity. Exploration is how teens discover passions and develop confidence.
Create Opportunities for Safe Risk-Taking Activities that challenge them (like trying a new sport or speaking in front of a group) help build resilience. Let them step outside their comfort zone with your encouragement.
Schedule Check-Ins, Not Check-Ups Give them space but stay connected by scheduling regular check-ins. It shows trust while providing a safety net if they need guidance.
Model Confidence in Their Growth If you believe in their ability to grow, they’ll believe it too. Celebrate their efforts, not just their successes, and remind them that learning is part of the process.
Independence isn’t about stepping away from your relationship—it’s about helping your teen build the skills to stand tall in the world with your support right behind them.
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